I've spent years in the camp world—as a camper, counselor, and camp director. Yet as I prepared to send my daughter to sleepaway camp for the first time, I found myself constantly wanting to call her camp director. Not because anything was wrong. Just because I had questions. Concerns. "What ifs." I kept stopping myself because I didn't want to be that parent. When I finally admitted this to her camp director, she said something I'll never forget: "If you're not advocating fo